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	<title>Comments on: Don&#8217;t F*ck with me or I&#8217;ll Blog about You!</title>
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		<title>By: Laurie Tam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laurie Tam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 18:42:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Omg. I found out about your blog on complicatedmom site and I love how cool your posting here.
It is my first time being on here and since I am a wahm/sahm, I am stuck at home for a majority of the time since I have three young girls that I take care of for most of the time.
Blogging is a great outlet to let the whole world know and since we are moms, we know exactly how it feels.
As for that chick who gave birth to 6 babies makes me sick so much because chicks like her make moms like us look really bad.
I have five blogs actually.
Please check mine out and let me know what you think.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Omg. I found out about your blog on complicatedmom site and I love how cool your posting here.<br />
It is my first time being on here and since I am a wahm/sahm, I am stuck at home for a majority of the time since I have three young girls that I take care of for most of the time.<br />
Blogging is a great outlet to let the whole world know and since we are moms, we know exactly how it feels.<br />
As for that chick who gave birth to 6 babies makes me sick so much because chicks like her make moms like us look really bad.<br />
I have five blogs actually.<br />
Please check mine out and let me know what you think.</p>
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		<title>By: rhea</title>
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		<dc:creator>rhea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 19:29:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The revolution starts here ladies! 

How easily they forget that we are WOMEN first. And how our needs are met, what we value, and how we deal with our life&#039;s issues may differ yes,

BUT

I have learned so very much from some of the smartest, funny, passionate women both on the web and in person.

AND

If we can get passed our differences and judgmental tendencies, we could actually become &quot;True Architects of Change&quot;. Lets continue to chat, share, and even disagree. 

I raise my glass to you and all that you do... and me too (wink wink)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The revolution starts here ladies! </p>
<p>How easily they forget that we are WOMEN first. And how our needs are met, what we value, and how we deal with our life&#8217;s issues may differ yes,</p>
<p>BUT</p>
<p>I have learned so very much from some of the smartest, funny, passionate women both on the web and in person.</p>
<p>AND</p>
<p>If we can get passed our differences and judgmental tendencies, we could actually become &#8220;True Architects of Change&#8221;. Lets continue to chat, share, and even disagree. </p>
<p>I raise my glass to you and all that you do&#8230; and me too (wink wink)</p>
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		<title>By: Rene Syler</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rene Syler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 08:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is EXACTLY what we preach, er, uh wholeheartedly agree with at
www.goodenoughmother.com. and I talked about in my book of the same name. Who says just because you are a wife and mother you forget how to have fun, or don&#039;t want to don your little black dress and hang with your girlfriends?

This is the face of modern motherhood and in my mind, the judgmental visitor who spurred this blog, should have a cocktail or three and loosen up a bit.. sheesh!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is EXACTLY what we preach, er, uh wholeheartedly agree with at<br />
<a href="http://www.goodenoughmother.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.goodenoughmother.com</a>. and I talked about in my book of the same name. Who says just because you are a wife and mother you forget how to have fun, or don&#8217;t want to don your little black dress and hang with your girlfriends?</p>
<p>This is the face of modern motherhood and in my mind, the judgmental visitor who spurred this blog, should have a cocktail or three and loosen up a bit.. sheesh!</p>
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		<title>By: Genia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Genia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2008 22:15:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a mom - and I blog.  I&#039;m not a mommy blogger though because I don&#039;t blog about burpin&#039; babies, diaper changin&#039;, soccer or hockey, or being a good wife.  

I&#039;m a mom who blogs about politics, current events, sexuality, raising teenagers (very comical people those damn teenagers!), race, gender, and dating crazy women (I&#039;m a lesbian).  What I find almost insulting is that some mommy bloggers have decided THEY decide what a true mommy blogger is - AND what she&#039;s supposed to look like AND what she&#039;s supposed to blog about.  

We are a diverse group of people.  We are interested in many things. I would love to see more mommy bloggers blogging about those many things of interest.

P.S.  Great site you have here. I love the layout.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a mom &#8211; and I blog.  I&#8217;m not a mommy blogger though because I don&#8217;t blog about burpin&#8217; babies, diaper changin&#8217;, soccer or hockey, or being a good wife.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m a mom who blogs about politics, current events, sexuality, raising teenagers (very comical people those damn teenagers!), race, gender, and dating crazy women (I&#8217;m a lesbian).  What I find almost insulting is that some mommy bloggers have decided THEY decide what a true mommy blogger is &#8211; AND what she&#8217;s supposed to look like AND what she&#8217;s supposed to blog about.  </p>
<p>We are a diverse group of people.  We are interested in many things. I would love to see more mommy bloggers blogging about those many things of interest.</p>
<p>P.S.  Great site you have here. I love the layout.</p>
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		<title>By: tanyetta</title>
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		<dc:creator>tanyetta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2008 19:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Keep on blogging and doing what YOU&#039;RE doing for YOU and YOUR family!

If it were NOT for blogging, I would seriously be in a room tied up somewhere.  I had to give birth without my husband being here (he was deployed) and we had just moved to a new town with NO family and NO friends.

I stumbled onto a website and the rest is history!

The fact that someone took out time to criticize what YOU do is BEYOND comprehension and doesn&#039;t even deserve YOUR attention.

Keep on cussing and living!  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Keep on blogging and doing what YOU&#8217;RE doing for YOU and YOUR family!</p>
<p>If it were NOT for blogging, I would seriously be in a room tied up somewhere.  I had to give birth without my husband being here (he was deployed) and we had just moved to a new town with NO family and NO friends.</p>
<p>I stumbled onto a website and the rest is history!</p>
<p>The fact that someone took out time to criticize what YOU do is BEYOND comprehension and doesn&#8217;t even deserve YOUR attention.</p>
<p>Keep on cussing and living!  <img src='http://www.thecocktailcafe.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: The Cocktail Cafe features, interviews, mom bloggers &#124; The Cocktail Cafe - celebrity, fashion, shoes, moms, celebs</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Cocktail Cafe features, interviews, mom bloggers &#124; The Cocktail Cafe - celebrity, fashion, shoes, moms, celebs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2008 22:48:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] article she highlights my post about being a mom and blogger.  If you missed this article you can read it here.  This blog accompanies her new book being released fall of 2009. The book is entitled The Power [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] article she highlights my post about being a mom and blogger.  If you missed this article you can read it here.  This blog accompanies her new book being released fall of 2009. The book is entitled The Power [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Stesha Sims</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stesha Sims</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2008 00:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whoever posted that comment has no life themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whoever posted that comment has no life themselves.</p>
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		<title>By: F.P.E.</title>
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		<dc:creator>F.P.E.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 14:59:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t believe someone would take the time to criticize someone else&#039;s choices.  Some would say by putting your business out there you leave room for the criticism, but to make some one feel less than what they are is just rude and obnoxious.  Not everyone can be that &quot;ideal mom&quot;.  Some of us want to have other things going on in our lives besides children and because of that we have to juggle.  It doesn&#039;t make us a bad mom at all.  Our goals and achievements should not be diminished because of kids, but maybe strengthen.  I talk about making time for yourself because that is important.  We forget about ourselves all too much and feel bad (like I do at times) for taking time for yourself.  But it&#039;s needed, in fact your kids need you to take time for yourself and so does your husband. Well I&#039;ll stop here because it looks like I could be writing another blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t believe someone would take the time to criticize someone else&#8217;s choices.  Some would say by putting your business out there you leave room for the criticism, but to make some one feel less than what they are is just rude and obnoxious.  Not everyone can be that &#8220;ideal mom&#8221;.  Some of us want to have other things going on in our lives besides children and because of that we have to juggle.  It doesn&#8217;t make us a bad mom at all.  Our goals and achievements should not be diminished because of kids, but maybe strengthen.  I talk about making time for yourself because that is important.  We forget about ourselves all too much and feel bad (like I do at times) for taking time for yourself.  But it&#8217;s needed, in fact your kids need you to take time for yourself and so does your husband. Well I&#8217;ll stop here because it looks like I could be writing another blog.</p>
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		<title>By: Christine Hohlbaum</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christine Hohlbaum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 08:44:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That makes me want to get up and blog, which I did. Thanks for your willingness to stand up, and stand out, when so many of us women cower in the corner wishing life could be different. Guess what? It can be!

&lt;a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That makes me want to get up and blog, which I did. Thanks for your willingness to stand up, and stand out, when so many of us women cower in the corner wishing life could be different. Guess what? It can be!</p>
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